Yesterday was a very emotional day for me when I visited my granddad’s old school in Wandsworth, and heard about his life as a school-boy on the eve of the Great War. As Emanuel’s school historian comments on the board displaying my granddad’s photo
“In the summer of 1914 Emanuel boys went about the normal lives. They played cricket on the field, they sang in a School concert in Battersea Town Hall and they attended prize giving…We broke up in July  under the shadow of Armageddon and reassembled [in September] to find it a reality.“
Emanuel at War Exhibition, November 2014
Visiting Emanuel school was intensely moving for me. Not least, because I never knew my granddad, as I was two when he died. A man who I’ve spent a great deal of time researching his family history and a man I would have loved to have known. A man I’m proud to call my granddad. He joined the York and Lancaster Regiment one day short of his 18th birthday in 1917 and returned home after the Great War to his loving parents and child-hood sweetheart, never to mention those terrible times again to another living soul.
The whole day was incredible moving for me because on my way through to South London from North Essex, I stopped by the ceramic poppy display at the Tower of London.
I had heard a lot of negative comments about these beautiful poppies before I went, and also heard plenty more negative remarks whilst I spent 2 hours walking and contemplating the exhibition. Directly behind me, a man commented (clearly aimed at me) “90% of the people here don’t know what it’s about and have come to gawp.” Well, sir, leaving aside that your comment aimed at me was incorrect because I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life researching my own local war memorial in Great Dunmow (long before it was “fashionable”), you totally missed the point about the remaining 89.999% of visitors.
It doesn’t matter that previously 90% showed no interest in the past. The fact that they are showing interest today, and have stopped during their busy 21st century lives to take photographs, comment, ponder and wonder, means that all those 888,246 lost lives have not been forgotten. 100 years after the start of Armageddon, hundreds of thousands of people have flooded to see this incredible display of lives and families destroyed.
I saw young heavily fake-tanned women taking “selfies”, along with old veterans displaying their medals. I saw fully kilted uniformed Scottish soldiers, along with twenty-somethings wiping tears away. Veterans, pensioners, London workers, tourists, young people and children all stood shoulder-to-shoulder. The fact is, Paul Cummins’ remarkable Sea of Blood is for absolutely everyone to pause in their lives and to reflect back to that terrible time 100 years ago.
The Great War affected all our families 100 years ago, and is now touching their descendants hearts today.
The controversy of the display at the Tower reminds me back to the days even whilst the Great War was still raging when the question of War Memorials started to be hotly debated all over towns and villages of a devastated Britain. The building of War Memorials were highly emotional with bereaved communities totally unable to decide what was the best way to commemorate their dead. My own North Essex town of Great Dunmow has a war memorial – but reading the meeting minutes regarding its building shows that in 1918 this was a deeply divided and grieving community. These are cold-hard meeting minutes reporting facts, but even now, they show unwitting testimony of highly charged and emotional council meetings. No-one being able to decide anything: a community torn apart in their grief and frozen in their indecisiveness.
Back to today, and yes, the Tower of London Poppy display is controversial, and the motives of some of its visitors questionable. But it is a very visual display of a shattered nation, and a shattered world.
If you have a chance to see the Tower of London’s “Blood swept Lands and Seas of red” before it is dismantled after 11th November 2014, do go. Take photos. Put them on Facebook, tweet them, publish them. By doing so those 888,246 lost souls – indeed the world’s lost souls from all the combatant nations – will always remain in our hearts.
They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.
The walls of the ancient Tower of London hemorrhaging the nation’s blood
In amongst the poppies, a poignant reminder from a bereaved family
The poppies and London’s iconic Victorian landmark – Tower Bridge
The past and the present: The Shard skyscraper rises up above the sea of blood
Somewhere in this sea of blood lies poppies representing 3 lost lives from my family
The ghostly images of Emanuel’s 1913 XV projected onto the school building. Eight of those boys never returned from the Great War. They were my granddad’s schoolmates and later, his comrades in arms. Amongst the 888,246 poppies at the Tower of London, 8 poppies represent the lost lives of these boys.
Lest we forget
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